Bruce C. Hafen Quotes

The Savior’s gift of grace to us is not necessarily limited in time to ‘after’ all we can do. We may receive his grace before, during and after the time when we expend our own efforts

If you have problems in your life, don’t assume there is something wrong with you.

In the long run, our most deeply held desires will govern our choices, one by one and day by day, until our lives finally add up to what we have really wanted most–for good or otherwise. We can indeed have eternal life, if we really want it, so long as we don’t want something else more.

Joy is not an alternative to opposition; it is part of a compound that includes opposition.

Marriage is by nature a covenant, Not just a private contract one may cancel at will.

Because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, we can learn from our experience without being condemned by our experience.

The deep hurt is the mirror image of the deep joy that still awaits you.

Equal partnerships are not made in heaven-they are made on earth, one choice at a time, one conversation at a time, one threshold crossing at a time.

We can have eternal life if we want it, but only if there is nothing else we want more.

Each of us will taste the bitter ashes of life, from sin and neglect to sorrow and disappointment. But the atonement of Christ can lift us up in beauty from our ashes on the wings of a sure promise of immortality and eternal life. He will thus lift us up, not only at the end of life, but in each day of our lives.

The great Mediator asks for our repentance not because we must ‘repay’ him in exchange for his paying our debt to justice, but because repentance initiates a developmental process that, with the Savior’s help, leads us along the path to a saintly character